sexual frustration adventure.

This is day 4 of my 30 days no masturbating/ejaculating challenge. I am surprised how easy motivation can come back in ALL area of my life with just 4 days of this. Up til now I don't sense much frustration at all. But obviously I got stronger feeling when I see healthy chicks walking around everyday. Like a stronger urge to approach and kino them. Yea and more focused & positive mind.

Tyler Durden on bad emotions and taking action

Hey man I recog this would be good motivation speech.

If you are gentlemen, move that step for the girls!

Have you ever had a situation that is, a girl in a really hot dress, standing around doing nothing and you just feel that "OMG! this girl is just waiting someone to approach her!". However, at this time your AA comes. Maybe she is just waiting her friends. Maybe it is just her interest to dress like that, it doesn't mean that she wants to show off.

Well, I am going to tell you that, If you are gentlemen, move that step for this girl. Don't you feel like a pussy, if you turn around and leave or expecting the girls will move forward to you and approach you?

So, I was swimming with my roommate as usual. We are very serious at swimming. When we get down to the pool, we just non-stop swimming for 45 minutes. Not expecting any girls to come ( apparently, not much people use the swimming pool in my building I live). However, we were lucky today. Two asian chick came down after 20 minutes of intense swimming. One of them was pretty hot. She was wearing bikini. Her friend was swimming very seriously and she was just chilling around in the pool. Like ever normal guy, my roommate and I immediately started to talk about her.

Roommate "is she hot? I don't have my glasses on."

Me "Yeah, pretty hot. Bikini and very healthy body!"

At this time, my roommate made a funny noise and said "excuse me".

The bikini girl had really big reaction and turn around said "Huh??"

Roommate, "nothing.. haha"

Of course, "approach!" quickly pop-ed up in my mind.

And then, here it goes...AA.

I had a really pussy childish excuse this time.

"ok... my aim today is swimming... concentrate to do sports and keep fit"

Then my roommate and I started to swim again for another 10 minutes. My roommate came to me again and said

" I had went close to her... she is not that cute"

Boo! He was impossible to see her face with that distance without glasses.

Typical "she is not hot...so I don't have the obligation to approach"

"lets go, I had finished my 50 round already"

At this time I said to myself.. really? Am I going to leave like a pussy? That girl is obviously waiting for me to approach her. She was chilling and looking around in the pool. She had such big reaction when we made just a little noise. I feel that I must to something to this! So I made my roommate went back to swim for 10 more rounds. Then I found a opportunity to talk to her.

Me "hey, where are u guys from..."

Bikini girl " I am from Vancouver "

Then the conversation went smoothly like normal indirect approach.

We found out we are studying in the same school and then we both introduced our buddy to each other.

My Point Is... sometimes hot chicks dressed so outstanding and chilling around, is just waiting for guys to approach them. I strongly think that, if I am a gentlemen, I have the obligation to approach them.

Boss.

So I did my approach today.

Idiot

Sorry men, I was being an IDIOT again today.

I compromised for a HB.

and I clearly know that it wont help me to get her even I compromise.

please remember this...all my frds.....

Boss

Weekly Mission 01 - AUG30-SEP05

Hey idiots! This is gonna be our first post!

Mission for this week:

Zhu

Primary objective:
- 3 contacts before Saturday (SEP04)

Secondary objective:
- At least 3 approach with 3 minutes in set time
- At least 2 contacts with time bridge used


Boss

Primary objective:
- 1 direct approach before (SEP02)

Secondary objective:
- 5 any type of approach before next monday


God bless enjoy.